So SCOTUS has decided that "the law of the land" is that homosexuals must be extended the same rights as heterosexual couples in all 50 states. Very interesting. The reality is that only 14 states had held out. 36 states had already passed laws that homosexual marriage was legal.
The issue is that it is the law of the land. Since homosexual marriage is acceptable now, i wonder if the government is going to force muslims to perform homosexual marriages. That will be fun to watch considering islam allows followers to kill homosexuals.
So i start my week not being able to purchase a confederate flag and gay marriage is legal. Damn, i wonder what will happen next this week.
So here we have the klan posing with another flag. Since the klan is a using this flag as a symbol of hate, how long before they ban this flag?
If anyone truly believes that the confederate flag causes hate, they really need to re-evaluate their perspective of life. I agree that the confederate flag has been adopted by hate groups but the American flag has been adopted by the same groups. At some point, common sense must kick in and we as a people need to stand up. Stand up for what is right. Call a hate group a hate group. Call an idiot an idiot. When are going to stand up?
I find this slippery slope we are on very troubling. We are trying so hard to be tolerant of everyone that we are losing our heritage and re-writing our history. I ask again, when is enough going to be enough? What else do we have to tolerate in the name of freedom?
29 June 2015
26 June 2015
Leading Generation Y
As a manager/supervisor, we will have many different
personalities that report to us. I have heard people say that dealing with this
younger generation is just impossible. If you think it is impossible, you need
to find another career. As managers and supervisors, it is our job to manage
and supervise these people. Once you understand generation “Y”, it’s not as
difficult as you think. Let’s start with some definitions.
The Great Generation
– The people of the Great Generation were born before 1945. They have
traditional names and values. They believe that sex was on the honeymoon, you
married only once, family is close and marriage is honored, they are influenced
by family and church, they hoped to outlive technology, and their motto was “No
Sweat”. This generation is detail oriented, thorough, loyal and hard working.
They hate ambiguity, are reluctant to buck the system, uncomfortable with conflict
and stubborn when they disagree with you.
They are influenced by patriotism, loyalty, and working
through hardships to build society. They have seen much change and faced many
challenges, thus providing insight and wisdom. The past has provided them new
views for the future. They provide outstanding mentorship and have come to
realize the necessity of flexibility in changing circumstances. They are busy
celebrating life, sharing experience, and increasing friendships, humor, and
leisure.
Baby Boomers – The
people between the ages of 46 and 64. This is the largest generation in the
history of the world. Every 60 seconds someone is turning 50. Their names are
Bob, Jim, Tom, David, John, Jr, Kathy, Linda, Mary or Nancy. They believed that
sex was in the backseat, married at least twice, and family is meant to be
dispersed. They are influenced by family and education, they hoped to master
technology and their motto is “No Problem”. This generation is service
oriented, driven, have strong people skills, want to please and are good team
players. They usually put process ahead of results, are overly sensitive to
feedback, are judgmental, and self-centered.
They are influenced by music, events, and social changes.
They were brought up to fight for causes and to make statements. They are more
serious and focused on doing everything it takes to get the job done. This
generation pushed up the divorce rate to 50%. They are busy solidifying careers
and family but beginning to simplify and think about their human imprint.
Generation X – The
people between the ages of 31 and 45. This is the first generation to be
smaller than its preceding generation. Their names are Josh, Brian, Jeff,
Ashley, Ray, Melissa, Jennifer, and Amy. They believe that sex is on the internet,
you don’t have to get married, family is blended and extended and are
influenced by the media. They enjoy technology and their motto is “No Fear”.
This generation is adaptable, techno-literate, independent, creative, and not intimidated
by authority. They are impatient, have interpersonal relationships, are inexperienced,
and cynical.
They were brought up on television, Atari’s, Nintendo’s,
VCR’s, and have high levels of energy and creativity. They are private but
bring a sense of play. They are fearless in terms of technology and newness.
They are highly educated and may be underemployed. They are busy staking
themselves out, building relationships and careers.
Generation “Y” – These
folks are 30 and younger (1981 - current). Their names are Alexis, Jordan,
Taylor, Nicole, Amber, Adam, Dustin, Laci, Jake, and Sean. This generation is
even smaller than their preceding generation. They believe sex is ok as long as
it is safe. They don’t bother to get married and their idea of family is
alternative but respected. They are influenced by their friends and they employ
technology. Their motto is “Whatever”.
This generation is optimistic, has tenacity, a heroic
spirit, are tech savvy and have multi-tasking capabilities. They have a need
for structure, need for supervision, cannot handle difficult people and they
are coming to terms with their limitations. They most admire traits of honesty
and integrity. They are used to moving at a fast pace. They have a spirit of
adventure and desire to have fun. Stress is in the form of prioritizing private
life to work life and they may be frustrated staying in one place too long.
They are busy transitioning out of school and securing jobs.
As a supervisor, there are some traits we need to adopt.
- Be real and sincere
- Accept that there are more
than one solutions to a problem
- Be honest and have
integrity
- Make your people look good
- Know that some people
believe something so strongly that they will look for ways to prove it
- Be able to explain value
in under 20 seconds
- Always ask thought
provoking questions
- Accept stupid questions,
it may save a life
- Know that accidents happen
when people lose focus on the moment
- Encourage and accept
feedback
- And promote the concept
that hate and discontent take up free rent in your head.
Always remember that stress is caused by knowing exactly
what you need to do and consistently not doing it. We bring stress upon
ourselves. If we alleviate the stress in our lives, we will be better
supervisors.
Now, how do we deal with the younger generation? We need to
know and understand them to effectively supervise them. It is a proven fact
that people are generally suited for the world they will inherit. It is up to
us to change this younger generation to conform to our values that the company
has. We are their leaders.
Here is how we lead the younger generation:
·
People under 30 were awarded achievement with no
accomplishment to build self esteem. Their teachers and coaches took away
competition. This doesn’t work well in the work place. We need to instill in
them that they will receive rewards with accomplishments.
·
People under 30 don’t have a sense of urgency.
They are laid back. We need to show them how to put that sense of urgency in
their lives. You have to give them a deadline. Make sure they clearly
understand what must be accomplished and by when.
·
We are different from generation “Y”. We need to
praise them throughout the entire process and not just at the end. They have
had their hands held through school and that is how they are. We need to be supportive
at all times.
·
Young people like technology. Find a way to mix
technology into their routine to keep them busy.
·
We shouldn’t talk about how we used to do it. It
may make the younger people take chances to show their bravery.
·
We must pay attention to the younger employees.
We cannot ignore them. They are used to constant interaction and praise.
·
The younger people don’t have the same maturity
level as those preceding generations. You need to clearly state rules and
guidelines.
If you learn the above 7 items and implement them into your
supervising skills, your stress level will go down. This is the workforce we
have. We must learn how to supervise them and help eliminate turnover. Once you
start being an effective leader to generation “Y”, you can guide and coach them
to be the type of employee you want. Remember, they are in a transitional
period in their lives. They are moldable and this is your opportunity to make
them great.
Been a while
It has been a while since i posted to this blog. As a matter of fact, it has been so long that i had to find the sign on information.
It seems that Face book seems to be dominating the social media scene and i fell into that trap as well. I don't really write much on my Face book but i do like to see what other people are doing. It did allow myself and a bunch of my old shipmates to reunite and stay in touch.
One thing i have noticed about social media is that it is destroying social contact. Back in the day, if a friend had an issue, they would contact their friends and they would find a solution for the issue. Now it seems that people post their issue on line and everyone chimes in saying they will pray for them. Although prayer is a powerful tool, sometimes human intervention is necessary. Social media seems to have done away with the human intervention.
So what should we as a society do to solve this problem? Do we need to start talking to our frinds again the old way and get off the Face book?
I don't really have an answer but i will try to make myself more available for human contact anytime i sense a friend of mine needs help.
It seems that Face book seems to be dominating the social media scene and i fell into that trap as well. I don't really write much on my Face book but i do like to see what other people are doing. It did allow myself and a bunch of my old shipmates to reunite and stay in touch.
One thing i have noticed about social media is that it is destroying social contact. Back in the day, if a friend had an issue, they would contact their friends and they would find a solution for the issue. Now it seems that people post their issue on line and everyone chimes in saying they will pray for them. Although prayer is a powerful tool, sometimes human intervention is necessary. Social media seems to have done away with the human intervention.
So what should we as a society do to solve this problem? Do we need to start talking to our frinds again the old way and get off the Face book?
I don't really have an answer but i will try to make myself more available for human contact anytime i sense a friend of mine needs help.
06 January 2014
Are homosexuals soon to be extinct?
There is a lot of chatter all over the web about the religious implications of homosexuality. Some like Phil believe that homos cannot get into heaven. The LGBT community believe that homos have the same rights to heaven as everyone else. So who is right?
Are we judging the homos because they sin differently from us? Most all Christians agree that we all fall short of the Glory of God. We are all sinners and we must accept that Jesus is the only way to gain entrance into heaven.
So, if we are all sinners and we all fall short of the Glory of God and we all need Jesus to get into heaven, why is that the homos are left out?
Well, since most Christians accept that we are all sinners, most Christians also believe that sinners must repent of their sins and try to become a better version of theirselves each day. Repenting of our sins seems to me what we need to focus on.
Of course, to be repentant of homosexuality, the homosexual must first admit that homosexuality is in fact a sin. Since the Bible list homosexuality as a sin (1 Timothy 1, 10, and 1 Corinthians, 6, 9), we will assume it is a sin in this post.
If we have a person that sins by having sex outside of marriage, that person is in a state of sin and should that person die, they couldn't get into heaven since they were in a sinful state. So how does this person repent of their sins? Whether you see a priest or join a support group, to be truly repentant, that person must stop the behavior that is creating the sin.
In the case of homosexuals, they can consider themself homosexual but they must stop committing the sin to get into heaven. The only way to do this is to be celebate. If a homosexual is celebate, they are not committing any sin, they are repentant, and will have the same chance as anyone else in getting into heaven. At least, this is what Christians believe.
So let's take religion out of the discussion. Let's look at this from a polar opposite view. Hell, lets just drag Darwin into the discussion.
If all the homo men were put on one continent by themselves, all the homo women were put on another
continent by themselves and all the hetro couples were on another continent with no way to interact
with the other groups, what would happen?
Within one generation only hetro couples would be left. By Darwin's way of thinking, this makes the
homo population a weaker group who will not be able to procreate thus leading to their extinction.
Although Darwin states that when reproductive isolation occurs, new species will form, that cannot
happen within one generation.
So whi is right and who is wrong? That question will never have a standard answer. It comes down
to what each person believes. I know this much though, it will be interesting to watch this unfold in
the future.
Are we judging the homos because they sin differently from us? Most all Christians agree that we all fall short of the Glory of God. We are all sinners and we must accept that Jesus is the only way to gain entrance into heaven.
So, if we are all sinners and we all fall short of the Glory of God and we all need Jesus to get into heaven, why is that the homos are left out?
Well, since most Christians accept that we are all sinners, most Christians also believe that sinners must repent of their sins and try to become a better version of theirselves each day. Repenting of our sins seems to me what we need to focus on.
Of course, to be repentant of homosexuality, the homosexual must first admit that homosexuality is in fact a sin. Since the Bible list homosexuality as a sin (1 Timothy 1, 10, and 1 Corinthians, 6, 9), we will assume it is a sin in this post.
If we have a person that sins by having sex outside of marriage, that person is in a state of sin and should that person die, they couldn't get into heaven since they were in a sinful state. So how does this person repent of their sins? Whether you see a priest or join a support group, to be truly repentant, that person must stop the behavior that is creating the sin.
In the case of homosexuals, they can consider themself homosexual but they must stop committing the sin to get into heaven. The only way to do this is to be celebate. If a homosexual is celebate, they are not committing any sin, they are repentant, and will have the same chance as anyone else in getting into heaven. At least, this is what Christians believe.
So let's take religion out of the discussion. Let's look at this from a polar opposite view. Hell, lets just drag Darwin into the discussion.
Darwin's Theory of Evolution by Natural Selection
- More individuals are produced each generation that can survive.
- Phenotypic variation exists among individuals and the variation is heritable.
- Those individuals with heritable traits better suited to the environment will survive.
- When reproductive isolation occurs new species
will form.
05 January 2012
Ineptocracy
Ineptocracy (in-ep-toc-ra-cy)
a system of government where the least capable to lead are elected mostly by the least capable of producing, and where the members of society least likely to sustain themselves or succeed, are rewarded with goods and services paid for by the confiscated wealth of a diminishing number of producers
a system of government where the least capable to lead are elected mostly by the least capable of producing, and where the members of society least likely to sustain themselves or succeed, are rewarded with goods and services paid for by the confiscated wealth of a diminishing number of producers
10 November 2011
Three contractors are bidding to fix a broken fence at the White House
One is from Chicago, another is from Tennessee, and the third is from Minnesota.All three go with a White House official to examine the fence.The Minnesota contractor takes out a tape measure and does somemeasuring, then works some figures with a pencil.“Well,” he says, “I figure the job will run about $900: $400 formaterials, $400 for my crew and $100 profit for me.”The Tennessee contractor also does some measuring and figuring, thensays, “I can do this job for $700: $300 for materials, $300 for mycrew and $100 profit for me.”The Chicago contractor doesn’t measure or figure, but leans over tothe White House official and whispers, “$2,700.”The official, incredulous, says, “You didn’t even measure like theother guys! How did you come up with such a high figure?”The Chicago contractor whispers back, “$1000 for me, $1000 for you,and we hire the guy from Tennessee to fix the fence.”“Done!” replies the government official.
And that, my friends, is how the new stimulus plan works!
And that, my friends, is how the new stimulus plan works!
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